Being
married is definitely a good thing , but what makes it last, where we
don't give up on each other is having our expectations met. From
childhood, we have expectations of our child, husband, wife on the way
they should behave, treat us and what they'll become. In the long run,
most people
get married without knowing the expectations their partner requires of
them. Although being inlove is a good reason to be married, knowing what
your significant other expects from you will determine how long you'll
stay married. After knowing their expectations, you get to know if
you're capable of achieving them in order not to bring or be a
disappointment to either of you.
Generally, the expectations from both men and women are almost the same
and for each, the same things are expected. Hence, what are your
wife's expectations from you as a husband? Read the guidelines below.
Love her for who she is and continue to love her for the traits you once saw in her which made you decide 'wheew, i'm marrying this girl.
She still craves for that care and attention you once showed her while you two were courting. Never give your wife the impression that you've started caring less or you don't care about her anymore. Love and norture her in ways only you can.
Anything or someone you love will always take most of your time. It could be food, a video game, blogging or another human. The same goes with your wife, she desires that you give her your time no matter how busy you are. She knows and understand that you're always up and going, trying to be the bread winner of the family. But don't neglect her in the process, a nice surprise dinner, a call from the office, checking her at work etc. once in while will definitely do the trick.
She hopes that she doesn't have to ever compete with any other woman to make you happy or keep you in the relationship. Although she puts in her best in looking good the first few years of your marriage, with time and more attention given to the kids, your wife might neglect that aspect of always putting on her best in other to please you. As a loving and dotting husband, admire her strengths and weaknesses in making your family a home and not use her outer appearance as an excuse.
Never lose sight of the qualities she has instead of her physical appearance, if not this might lead to you having a succession of extra marital affairs. Know that you will always find women that are more beautiful than her, but you will never find anyone as unique as she is.
Your wife desires that you to be a disciplinarian and an example to the kids. Make time out to watch over the affairs of the family. As a father, never push the responsibility of cautioning your kids, advicing them when the need arises to their mother. It is a responsibility of both parents. Your child musn't see you as a loving father and she as the mean mother because you have failed to discipline them which she has taken up as her task.
Other than disciplining your kids, you have to be an example to them and a rock they can lean on. Being an example involves doing those things your kids will admire and strive to be the father you are someday. Don't say one thing or advice your kids only to end up doing what you kicked against.
Financially, spiritually and emotionally, you are to be a help to your family as well as your wife. Something as little as making her dinner or running to the grocery store once in a while does not take your dignity as a man. This only shows the value you have for her and how much you appreciate her efforts. Also, while she's struggling to make the kids adhere to instructions, don't be the one misleading them by giving another than contradicts the one she gave or go against it especially in the presence of your kids. If you feel it isn't right, speak to her privately before making the changes.
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Expectations A Wife OF Her Husband
1. She wants to be loved
Love her for who she is and continue to love her for the traits you once saw in her which made you decide 'wheew, i'm marrying this girl.
2. She wants to be cared for
She still craves for that care and attention you once showed her while you two were courting. Never give your wife the impression that you've started caring less or you don't care about her anymore. Love and norture her in ways only you can.
3. Never be too busy to give her your time
Anything or someone you love will always take most of your time. It could be food, a video game, blogging or another human. The same goes with your wife, she desires that you give her your time no matter how busy you are. She knows and understand that you're always up and going, trying to be the bread winner of the family. But don't neglect her in the process, a nice surprise dinner, a call from the office, checking her at work etc. once in while will definitely do the trick.
4. Doesn't have to compete with others
She hopes that she doesn't have to ever compete with any other woman to make you happy or keep you in the relationship. Although she puts in her best in looking good the first few years of your marriage, with time and more attention given to the kids, your wife might neglect that aspect of always putting on her best in other to please you. As a loving and dotting husband, admire her strengths and weaknesses in making your family a home and not use her outer appearance as an excuse.
Never lose sight of the qualities she has instead of her physical appearance, if not this might lead to you having a succession of extra marital affairs. Know that you will always find women that are more beautiful than her, but you will never find anyone as unique as she is.
5. She expects you to be a disciplinarian
Your wife desires that you to be a disciplinarian and an example to the kids. Make time out to watch over the affairs of the family. As a father, never push the responsibility of cautioning your kids, advicing them when the need arises to their mother. It is a responsibility of both parents. Your child musn't see you as a loving father and she as the mean mother because you have failed to discipline them which she has taken up as her task.
Other than disciplining your kids, you have to be an example to them and a rock they can lean on. Being an example involves doing those things your kids will admire and strive to be the father you are someday. Don't say one thing or advice your kids only to end up doing what you kicked against.
6. Be an help to her
Financially, spiritually and emotionally, you are to be a help to your family as well as your wife. Something as little as making her dinner or running to the grocery store once in a while does not take your dignity as a man. This only shows the value you have for her and how much you appreciate her efforts. Also, while she's struggling to make the kids adhere to instructions, don't be the one misleading them by giving another than contradicts the one she gave or go against it especially in the presence of your kids. If you feel it isn't right, speak to her privately before making the changes.
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