See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Failed To Sleep With Her - Blogreader agony


I started dating this girl in 2013 when she was still seeking admission. I was already done with school managing a little business for survival when she got admitted into the university. My plan was to get married to her if things went as planned.

A year after she gained admission,, she started exhibiting some questionable characters which seemed hard to cope with. She started acting like she was too busy for me, she started replying cold tgo my chat, she no longer cared and a few to mention. Well, I wasn't surprised because ladies often turn a new leaf the moment they get into the university and start having various toasters. Though, I could read these were signs of possible break up due to the pressure from various suitors and perhaps, better offers. I tried to rekindle the fire of our love by having a heart to heart talk with her but all my effort seemed to be a waste.

Her strange attitude, which I could no longer cope with, persisted until I told her I needed a break hoping To my greatest surprise, she said was cool with it if that was what I wanted . We went separate ways for about 7 months after which we reconciled in April, this year. After a lengthy discussion blaming each other for our unseriousness and childishness, I inquired if she was still intact the way I left her and she told me she was. (Though, I would have confirmed that during cuddling but she was on her period that day) 

She went home that day and later gave me a call back telling me she needed to see me the next day in order to make a confession. The moment she said it, I already knew she had lost it but I wanted to hear it from her mouth. She came the next day telling me she carelessly lost to a dude whom she wasn't dating it barely a month after we parted ways. . I was so disappointed and sad that, how could someone I dated for one and half year without touching just throw herself to a man whom met just a month after to defile her.

She cried and pleaded for mercy and since forgiveness is from God, I forgave her even though I found it hard to get it off my chest. Now, I can still see some components of infidelity in her despite trying my best not to reminisce on the past. Though, I still love her but not as before and I no longer trust her like I used to do uzmediablog readers, don't you think it's too risky to continue with a relationship considering the fact that the TRUST is gone already? Please am I wasting my time with this lady or I should let her go just to save myself from worry and nightmare?

Please your advice is highly needed
 
dear anonymous blog reader i can feel how disappointed and bad you feel about your girl, we both make mistakes that we regret simple advice if you think you can forget what she did and regain the trust back go ahead and stay in the relationship since you love her so much but if you think you cant forget what she did and you cant trust her is better you be honest and not continue but bear in mind nobody is perfect think about this before you make a decision take care


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Why You Should Date An Already Rich Guy


LIFE WILL BE EASIER 

You do not have to look and ask for T-fare because if he leaves close by he can come and pick you up to go on dates. No dangerous okada rides or seating next to smelly people on a bus.

THERE IS MORE TO DO 

With a well to do guy you get to go on different dates. Not just eatries, he can take you out of town to holiday resorts or you go out to comedy shows and concerts.
YOU WILL KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING YOURSELF INTO 

They say a man's loyalty is tested when he has money. When you date a broke guy usually he will be loyal to you because he knows that not many beautiful women are ready to be with him. You will always been uncertain if that lotalty will still be there when he finally finds money, if he does at all. 
When he is already rich at least you will know his true colours right from the beginning.

YOU STAY BEAUTIFUL 

Let us not fool ourselves there is no woman who has been able to turn heads looking like a village girl with a 5months old hairstyle? You need decent looking clothes, stunning hairstyles and quality make-up to always look amazing. Post your pictures looking like you just came back from fetching water in your village and a picture of you looking like Beyonce on stage and see which one guys will respond to, even the brokes ones. 

YOU LOOK FORWARD TO A LOT 

Would you want to put on N80,000 weave, designer clothes and make-up to go eat indomie and eggs at a face me i slap you apartment? Obviously not! You get to dress up for different ocassions, from holidays to fancy weddings to VIP seats at events. 
You get to be showered with gifts. I know the broke guys will call you a prostitute and what what, but was his yeye ex-girlfriend not spreading her legs for free? How is that more dignified?

THE SEX IS MUCH MORE FUN 

Where do you think you will enjoy the sex more? On a matress on the ground in a hot room with no AC and his sweat all over you or a double matress bed facing the beach outside with the room smellling like lavender? 
Forget all those who scream non-virgins are cheap, when her husband starts cheating with experienced women barely 6months into the marriage (which is usually the case) that is when reality will hit them.


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Read How A Wife's "Tasteless" Food Crashed Her 21-Year-Old Marriage

An Igando Customary Court has dissolved a 21-year-old marriage over the wife’s, Aisha Abiodun, poor cooking.

Delivering his judgment, the President, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, said the petitioner – Ashimiyu Abiodun, 54, – was adamant despite all mediation to safe the marriage.

“Since the petitioner has insisted on divorce after several interventions, the court has no choice than to dissolve the union despite the wife’s claim that she still loves her husband.

“The court pronounced the marriage between Ashimiyu Abiodun and Aisha Abiodun dissolved today; both parties, henceforth, ceased to be husband and wife.

“Both are free to go their separate ways without any hindrances or molestation,” Omilola ruled.

Earlier, the petitioner, Mr Ashimiyu Abiodun, 54, had approached the court and asked it to dissolve his 21-year-old marriage over his wife’s alleged poor cooking.

“My wife did not know how to cook, her food was always tasteless. Anytime she cooked and I complained about her food, she would tell me to cook myself.

“And I started cooking my food because if I had continued eating her food, I might have fallen sick,” he said.




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Naija Girls 3 things they hate to see on the street

Women get pissed off on the streets for so many reasons but here are 3 silly things that get them really mad.

what Women hate to see on streets

Although women love to flaunt their beauty on the streets of Lagos, Calabar, Abuja or any part of Nigeria, they also get very annoyed when they come across nasty behaviors from other people on the way. Women get pissed off on the streets for so many reasons but here are three silly things that get them really mad.


John Legend, Chrissy Teigen PDA

1.) Other's PDA

Watching another couple have their moment on the street is one thing  that annoys most Nigerian girls. They don't get angry because the couple is having a good time, they just get mad because the girl they are watching kissing the guy isn’t them. PDA from other couples simply irritates them just because they are jealous.

2.) Men who urinate on the street

This is by far, one of the most disgusting thing to see on the streets for most women.  Most ladies admit it's not only distasteful but it’s a sign of irresponsibility from the man. "This is just gross!" one reader tells us, "I can't deal with this at all, eww".

American rapper, The game in new sexy photos

3.) Pen is grabbing

Ladies call this a nasty habit and most of them do not understand why guys do it anyways. Sometimes, men do it without even knowing but it leaves an impact on the ladies' minds. Women get to see the size of a man's pe nnis via this act which leaves them with squeezed faces of disgust. "I hate this!" says our female reader, "but unfortunately, it can never stop."




 
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5 risks gotten from sharing your love life on social media

Should couples continue to post about their love life or relationships on social media?

Couples vacation selfie 

The social media has been used and abused by modern-day couples who think sharing private information about their relationship is their own way of letting friends, fans and family into their lives. Pulse.ng is looking at five ways this act is bad for the union.

 Couple on vacation (Instagram)

1.) Exposure:

Posting everything about your love life is exposing your privacy to the world. Even though some couples have an upper hand over what goes and what doesn't, it's likely to get misunderstood for showing off. E.g, "Family vacation in Canada," could lead to envy or frenemies knowing your every move and think of how to harm you. Do we need to add, stalkers and armed rubbers!!!?

 

2.) Negative comments:

People who aren’t happy about their shitty love life will be happy to drag their negativity into your life by leaving negative comments on every post. You having dinner with your partner could attract comments like, "Is that all you can afford?" "Cheap date", "Poor couple" etc. Irrelevant hate, which you'll say doesn;t get to you but when it gets consistent and others start entertaining them, you and your emotions are in trouble.


3.) Misjudgment:

There's a huge possibility of getting misjudged thanks to your posts on social media. Taking a trip abroad doesn't mean you are rich. Window shopping at a popular fashion store in Milan or Paris doesn't mean your partner gave you the money to buy anything. Kissing your boo in a pic doesn’t mean you guys are the best couple on earth and you don't go through struggles like others. Be careful!
Chris Brown and Karrueche Tran share a kiss

4.) Children exposed to bullying and shame

Sharing about your love life or relationship on social media also puts your kids (for those who are parents) at risk. God forbid, you get a divorce; what happens to your kids at school or at Sunday school classes? Why does every one need to know what they are going through?

Deleting his pictures after a nasty break up

5.) Public embarrassment

What if you get divorced or go through a break up, what happens to those lovely posts? Some even take down the pictures of the ex, but does that keep people from noticing you are now lonely and single?  Also, a mistaken post might just attract name calling or shaming for no good reason… leaving your kids embarrassed in pubic.


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